Blogging Mindset Training: Do You Use Technology or Does It Use You?

  March 29, 2023 blogging tips 🕑 5 minutes read
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Are you willing to use technology to help people?

 

Or do you let technology use you?

 

My fingers feel tired after typing for most of today. I decided to dictate this post to change things up and to save time.

 

In this case, I at least appear to be using technology to help you guys. But I was not always this disciplined.

 

I allowed technology to use me in the past by gluing myself to a series of glowing rectangular screens. Check email. Check replies on social media. Do more. Work harder.

 

I deeply feared missing out. That fear scared me into being used by technology.

 

Of course this isn’t really possible. Technology cannot use you because it is not sentient, being an inanimate concept. You and I have something called “free will”. But you wouldn’t necessarily believe that truth if you glance at the world today.

 

People Watching

 

One of my favorite pastimes while circling the globe is people watching.

 

Whether waiting for a flight or eating at a restaurant most glue their eyes to their phone screens instead of connecting with human beings. Even making eye contact seems like a Herculean task.

 

This is people allowing technology to use them. It’s almost like phones and laptops lasso attention spans, not unlike a puppeteer operating a puppet.

 

Everyone is entitled to use technology. But letting tech use you serves only as a useless distraction.

 

Most people use technology to isolate themselves when the idea behind this gift is to connect and help the world.

 

Don’t allow technology to use you.

 

Use technology to be truly helpful in order to break this habit. Employ technology not to distract yourself but to create for other human beings.

 

Dictate content to share across the web. Help people. Serve people. Publish something positive to social media.

 

Don’t fall into a YouTube vortex for the next 4 hours. Stop being a voracious consumer.

 

Be a Creator

 

Be a creator. Make something useful for others. Create something beneficial for humanity.

 

This is the most direct way to use technology instead of being used by technology.

 

Admittedly, shifting in this direction feels uncomfortable at first because most of us distract ourselves with technology rather than facing our fears.

 

Video

 

Use technology to create peaceful videos like this sunset in Turkey.

 

Sunset in Turkey

 

Stop Distracting Yourself

 

As someone who’s circled the globe for the past 12 years I sometimes use technology to lessen my loneliness. Trying to distract myself with mindless entertainment via my phone or laptop to drown out those lonely feelings is a temporary solution. Eventually, I realized that helping people with technology is the only way to feel happy, peaceful and fulfilled as I live the digital nomad lifestyle.

 

Love never asks. Love only gives. Remember these two life truths to use technology for good and to feel good.

 

Maintaining a busy schedule, working hard and trying desperately to achieve are distracting mechanisms guaranteed to push your fears deeper out of awareness.

 

Technology behaves like a willing partner in this distraction game. Checking your email for the 50th time today sounds absurd at first glance. But when you’re not even aware of this distracting tendency you basically become enslaved to your neurosis.

 

Become hyper aware of how you choose to use your phone. Before doing anything just ask yourself the simple question: Why?

 

The ego may not like the answer but with honesty you can use technology to be truly helpful instead of distracting yourself with this gift.

 

We can do much together by using technology for helping all.

 

Practical Tips for Bloggers

 

Use technology to be truly helpful.

 

Create detailed content.

 

Build meaningful connections with bloggers on the same page even if it means being a picky networker.

 

Employ technology primarily to meet those ends.

 

Do not use your phone to distract yourself. Resist giving in to the temptation to check your email for the 30th time today. Stop reviewing blogging metrics 2-3 times daily. Never use technology as a crutch because no-thing can do the full blogging work for you.

 

For example, some bloggers attempt to use ai to write and publish full blog posts. In essence, the intelligence appears to do the blogging work for them. Perhaps the temporary results of ranking on page 1 of Google or driving a heavy volume of traffic seems enticing. But none of these ai bloggers have yet to prove:

 

  • meaningful friendships
  • exponentially increasing blogging business
  • a growing stable of hungry customers
  • an ever expanding client base

 

as a clear, credible effect of the technology cause consistent with using ai to write full blog posts.

 

Why?

 

#1: It is not happening now. If it were, ai bloggers would plaster images of happy clients and customers beaming:

 

“We are so happy to have been fooled by these artificially spun articles NOT mindfully, soulfully and creatively written by a human!”

 

2: It sure as hell ain’t happening in the future.

 

As I’ve observed over my nearly 15 year blogging career, fear projected as greed and desperation compels bloggers to seek something for nothing. The desire motivates them to fool people temporarily until people catch on, tire of being treated like an asshole (figuring out that a $40 per month glorified bot wrote something not a genuine, compassionate, skilled human being) and stop following the bloggers. As an added bonus, these bloggers lose all credibility and eventually disappear all together. I have observed this happen 100’s of times through many absurd boom-bust blogging cycles since 2008.

 

Technology is not a “skill developing” short cut. Skip the skills development and you skip the highly targeted, heavy blog traffic and increasing blogging income effects of your skills development cause.

 

Technology is a supplemental tool that wise bloggers can use – but do not need – to handle rote, repetitive tasks or to aid a somewhat sleeping mind, temporarily, of course.

 

Practical Uses of Technology for Bloggers

 

Consider these ideas:

 

  • dictate blog posts from voice to a Google Document (per the blog post you read now)
  • dictate genuine blog comments by using your phone to rest your overworked fingers exhausted from typing
  • set an alarm via a phone or web browser timer to limit social media engaging to 10 minute intervals 2-3 times daily; Chromodoro is my favorite
  • casually cruise the web for 1 or 2 hours if you wish only after completing blogging work for the day
  • consider personalizing videos and/or audio messages via social channels to add a charming touch with technology
  • live broadcast on Facebook and YouTube to connect with your blogging community
  • host Twitter Spaces to bond with your readership

 

These are just a few tips to point you in the right direction.

 

Conclusion

 

Technology can be used to unite and prosper or to divide and struggle.

 

All change occurs one mind at a time.

 

The first and only mind to focus on is yours.

 

Your Turn

 

How do you use technology to be truly helpful as a blogger?

 

Or are you struggling to prevent technology from swallowing you whole?

  1. Lisa Sicard says:
    at 4:36 am

    Hi Ryan, I think we have been using all kinds of technology with blogging since it’s done on the internet. It’s not like we are writing with a feather pen and a piece of parchment paper 🙂 However, those were tools too. I like the word supplemental tools. Not used to replace our thoughts and actions but to help us with them. Guiding us and saving us time. I use all sorts of tools from Grammarly to Canva to some AI. But adding our own experiences into the mix is our own (brain) tool. It’s amazing how much time people spend on their phones today. Scary!

  2. Ryan Biddulph says:
    at 5:01 am

    Yep yep Lisa; we use technology extensively but the key is to use the brain to create versus consuming voraciously via phone. The time folks generally spend on their phones is borderline alarming. Let’s keep creating to wake up these sleeping minds.

  3. Joy Healey says:
    at 6:37 pm

    Hi Ryan, it drives me NUTS when I see people permanently on their phones. Much to their disgust I turn mine off when I’m trying to work, or even relax by reading a book or (shhhh) watching TV. Whatever I do, I want to be 100% in it.

    As for the AI blog posts…. well I used it for one, but it was so ‘not me’ that I spent longer rewriting it than I would have done if I’d written it from scratch.

    Thanks for the tips. Like Lisa I use Canva as I am spectacularly design challenged!

    Joy

  4. Stefan (Berkeley Square Barbarian) says:
    at 2:28 am

    The line in your article that chimed most with me is: “Before doing anything [on your mobile phone] just ask yourself the simple question: Why?” I do tend to get glued to my cell way too often, just doodling around, eyeballing other people’s tweets, scrolling through Whatsapp messages, without actually getting anything done. At the same time, I realise I’m rather averse to the latest technology developments. Your post gives food for thought, mate.

  5. Ali Asgar Attari says:
    at 3:53 am

    I don’t see a blogger going anywhere without technology. While technology is a pre-requisite for any online activity that you pursue, one needs to learn to keep some time away from it.

    I sometimes do this! There are times when I have an idea about a blog post and the thoughts flow so naturally and smoothly that I don’t feel like hindering it with doing keyword research or optimizing for SEO and using tools to do it.

    I just let the writing flow.

    But I may have been guilty of distracting myself with my mobile phone multiple times a day. And checking blog metrics 10 times a day is something I can’t get away with 🙁

    This post is a check on my habits as a blogger that I shouldn’t be having.

    Helpful as always, Ryan! Thanks!

    Ali

  6. Ryan Biddulph says:
    at 4:53 am

    Turning off the phone brings immense peace of mind Joy. Technology can help as an amplifier but creating with human minds – not consuming – is the quickest way to establish peace of mind and to accelerate our blogging success.

  7. Ryan Biddulph says:
    at 4:55 am

    Honestly Stefan, it can be so tough to avoid not scrolling, or phone-gazing, or just checking it a high number of times daily because we literally have 24-7 access at our finger tips. The “why” question provides instant clarity though. Truth serum, really. I’m realizing that tech is truly helpful when I use it to create or co-create something through actual engagement; typing, chatting on video, etc.

  8. Ryan Biddulph says:
    at 4:56 am

    Same here Ali. I love writing in the flow because words seamlessly move from mind, to fingers to laptop. But mobile phone distraction sessions seem tempting sometimes, too. We are getting there brother. Slow and steady.

  9. Erika Mohssen-Beyk says:
    at 10:37 am

    Hi Ryan,
    It makes me sad seeing people, even while walking with the phone in the hand. It happened that I thought somebody is talking to me and realize that they talk loud to the phone with headphones. I do not take a gadget with me if I go out, except if I go with the intention to make pictures.
    But as bloggers we use a lot of technology to create posts and images and do research. But we have to take that use it wisely and not let it swallow us.
    Thank you for reminding us. 🙂
    Erika

  10. Ryan Biddulph says:
    at 5:34 pm

    Wise words here Erika. I too rarely travel with technology whenever I walk around outside of the house. I also never get minutes for my phone. I spend enough time online indoors.