El Valle de Anton Panama
Dear Blogger I Did Not Reply to on Social Media or via Email,
I love you.
But no thank you.
I do not need you (Even if your ego has you convinced that I need you).
Nor do I need your offering (Even if your ego has you convinced that I need your offering).
I live my dreams through blogging. I am complete. What can you offer me if I am already complete? I am good. I am there. You have nothing to offer me. Sorry.
However, if you nudge your ego to the side, I probably have an incredible amount of:
- knowledge
- wisdom
- insights
- experience
to offer you.
Why?
I can teach you how to create content-assets that send customers and clients to you passively versus actively chasing bloggers who do not want or need your offering.
I love you. But I do not want your help. I do not need your help. That makes sense, right?
I know you want to guest post on my blog. Get on line after the 10,000 other bloggers who asked me the same question since 2014. Of course you want to! But there is a big difference between you and I; I patiently, confidently and consistently built my blog by publishing only the highest quality content in full alignment with my brand since 2014. You did not. Oh yeah; I also own the blog. I lay out the rules. I pay the domain and hosting bills here.
If I asked you for access to your bank account after not depositing a penny into your bank account, would you give me the account number and routing number?
No you would not! Nor would I expect you to do that.
Identically, I will not give you or the 10,000 other green bloggers pitching me the same, generic, ho-hum guest blogging opportunities, the keys to Blogging From Paradise. It is mine, like your bank account is yours. I run the show here. I patiently built it through thick and thin. I own it. I call the shots. If you would not give me access to your money, home, business or job, stop asking me for access to my blog……understood?
As for backlink building services, 84,000 point to my blog and a slew of the world’s top bloggers and most iconic brands have linked to Blogging From Paradise or currently link to Blogging From Paradise.
What you are doing is offering an NBA player a starting role on a varsity basketball team.
Does that make sense to me?
I made the varsity team 17 years ago.
Why would I go back in a time machine to regress?
Can you understand why I do not want you offering?
Do you understand why I did not reply?
You still do not quite yet understand how creating targeted content consistently attracts the perfect clients and customers to you. But your lack of understanding does not mean I will reply to what you want to sell to me.
I do not need it.
I do not want it.
I still love you though.
I am here to help bloggers with blogging tips and *to do nothing else, including being your client, or to have my blog be the destination for your next guest post.*
Understood?
Unfortunately, I went through what you mentally suffer from now. Someone rejected you. Perhaps someone abused you. It is awful, because I have suffered horribly from these hellish experiences, decades ago. I learned – and you will as well – that until you mentally own, feel then look past the fears associated with those events, you will:
- take everything personally
- believe that a lack of my response personally rejects or insults you
- think I do not like you
- think I do not love you
- chase me with spam emails, spam messages and spam social media comments, airing grievances, filing social complaints and pretty much gumming up my streams based on *your 100% untrue, inaccurate, false beliefs based on your past trauma*
I block social media profiles and email handles associated with loving people who completely misinterpret a lack of interest in their offering as a pure rejection of their being, or, as a lack of love and caring.
I love you.
But I do not want your help.
Understood?
Why not create content that attracts customers and clients who DO want your specific help?
Signed with Love Hugs and Blogging Kisses,
Ryan Biddulph
Blogging From Paradise Dot Com
