Amsterdam, the Netherlands
This post will be fun to write because it puts the ego on blast.
I have noted a blogging pattern with readers; most love my work consistently as long as the individuals follow my blog.
A few mentally injured individuals love my work one day then hate my work 10 seconds later. I am not even kidding. Some guys love me to the point of claiming me to be their blogging mentor. I am a trusted beacon of blogging light. I am their leader. 24 hours later, the ego poisons their mind with:
- doubt
- skepticism
- fear
- loss
- scarcity
- poverty
- hate
- condemnation
Projection naturally follows; I mean, why would ya face your demons when you can puke them out on the world and blame another body for your own personal hell, eh?
I rarely emotionally attach myself to readers because ya never know how fast someone’s mind will fall apart. If you attach yourself to their praise what happens when they hate you? What happens if they believe you one day then stop believing you 24 hours later? You feel loved, then you feel hated. You believe in yourself, then doubt yourself. Yeah; that’s what happens if you link your self-worth to the flighty whims of others.
This is why I do not emotionally attach myself to others who perceive me. Stick around long enough. The mindful become mindless. What happens when your loyal fan turns into a scathing critic AND you base your worth on their Doctor Jekyll – Mr Hyde act?
Hate happens.
Disappointment happens.
Rage happens.
Guilt happens.
Loss happens.
If you do not emotionally attach yourself and your worth based on the dodgy perceptions of the wild-minded masses, you will experience:
- inner peace
- abundance
- worldly success as organic traffic and blogging income
I detach from readers to keep inner peace, abundance and worldly success expansive in my experience.
Why do I think this way now?
I got burned enough by valuing the opinions of others.
I learned my lesson; that’s why I wrote the post.
Keep It Within
I keep my peace, abundance and success within.
If someone says something nice about me, I feel good within. If the same person says something bad about me, I feel good within. The nice words and bad words do not change my mind about myself.
Not a bad upside, eh?
I had enough people claim to be my most loyal followers one day, or for a week, or for 3 years then turn around and lash out at me in wild skepticism, anger and even rage, to goad me to migrate within.
For example, some guy or gal says I am their blogging mentor yesterday. I do not mentally attach to it; I keep it within. Today, that guy or gal skeptically skewers their blogging mentor because the mentally injured know not what they do, always projecting fear onto others as the ego mindlessly does. How do I feel to see their illusory turn? Who cares? My value is within not in their sketchy perceptions, colored by their own unconscious guilt. I feel good if they love me because the good-feeling emanates from within. I feel good if they hate me because the good-feeling emanates from within.
As long as I feel good, success expands for me and our loyal following.
I feel no disappointment, shame, embarrassment or sense of being a fraud when a fan turns into a hater because their karmic chaos is something I mentally detached from long ago. I am the most wonderful thing since sliced bread then a fraud of frauds, according to their inner turmoil. I care less. Their insane mental meanderings have nothing to do with my peace.
Would I take it personally if a mannequin cursed me out?
Why would I perceive a mindless human body differently?
See what I mean?
I am here to help resonant bloggers who deeply desire my help.
But what these individuals choose to think of me has no bearing on my self-perception because I detach from their thinking to accept myself.
I Thank Them for their Lessons
I never would have figured out how to detach from loyal fans unless a few turned into raving lunatics, seemingly overnight.
I needed each experience to realize that my worth is not in their wildly vacillating opinion.
You need to eventually learn that what they think is not who you are.
Your only job is to help people who want the help and to look past everyone else.
Some want your help today, and question your credibility tomorrow. Opps. Buh-Bye. Don’t let the door hit your ass on the way out. Sorry. I look past skeptics because energy vampires want to spoil the community and want nothing to do with getting my help or helping others. Perhaps yesterday, or 1 hour ago, they did. Now, they don’t. Time is an illusion. Now is real.
Live with Love and Help People
Live with love and help people.
Anyone who questions you needs to go.
Obviously, they want nothing to do with receiving love and help. Ignore them. Look past them. Block user accounts to prevent communication. This is the blessing of emotionally detaching yourself from readers; you can look beyond them instantaneously when they are the source of nothing, for you.
Doesn’t that sound great?
Keep your world within.
Succeed with peace.
