What Is a Painfully Difficult Aspect of Being a Pro Blogger?

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  May 29, 2026 blogging tips 🕑 4 minutes read
Paekakariki New Zealand

Paekakariki New Zealand

 

Going pro taught me invaluable blogging lessons.

 

I learned a thing or two over the prior 18 years.

 

One particular aspect of going pro feels difficult to embrace: being patient enough to experience organic traffic consistently.

 

Few bloggers go pro because becoming a full-time blogger depends on achieving organic success.

 

Organic traffic needs to be earned. Driving highly interested people to your blog is a skill.

 

Organic success is all about creating detailed, targeted content to earn credibility in the eyes of hungry readers.

 

Succeeding organically is a long, winding road few bloggers stomach.

 

I experience this daily as an 18 year blogging veteran.

 

My Deal

 

I observe mental blocks today surely I had to have conquered 18 years ago as a new blogger. Alas; stuff still kicks around in my unconscious mind. I do possess some deep shadows like everyone here with a split mind.

 

Jogging the blogging marathon over years gradually reveals all types of nasty fears in the unconscious mind you were completely unaware of; some of it feels quite painful. This is why bloggers usually quit. Quitting feels safe compared to facing, feel and releasing fear to eventually experience organic success.

 

Keep an Eye Out for These Unconscious Fears

 

  • the fear of failure
  • the fear of criticism
  • the fear of wasting your time
  • the fear of succeeding

 

Organic success cannot be forced. Organic success cannot be gamed. Organic success cannot be manipulated.

 

Putting in mindful work – diligently – is the only way to drive organic traffic and blogging income. No one blogs organically by pushing things. No one hurries themselves into a full-time blogging career.

 

For example, in order to properly publish this post, I had to set aside ample time to:

 

  • edit the featured image to its proper dimensions
  • choose the right title to increase clicks for blogging tips hungry bloggers
  • add sufficient text to the post even though the embed below relays the message
  • effectively promote this post through appropriate channels
  • toss salt over my shoulder three times; this is a joke based on superstition

 

Learning how to do this stuff takes plenty of time. Practicing takes a bunch more time. Becoming highly skilled at doing these things takes even more time.

 

Do you understand why blogging is highly difficult for some brief stretches?

 

Succeeding organically requires a full commitment to practicing the skill known as “blogging” for years.

 

How it works: you invest thousands of hours to create content and build connections. People who seek your content and trust it find your blog, follow it, buy your stuff and drive referral traffic and referral income.

 

Reaching that point takes tons of practice.

 

How to Practice Blogging 

 

  • write 500 words daily offline to develop confidence
  • write and publish one long form post weekly to gain clarity
  • broadcast live to share practical tips in a spontaneous setting; knowing your stuff means doing uncomfortable things consistently

 

During these years, most drive scant traffic and little income…..most quit. I know; I have been at that point a few times during my 18 year blogging career. Every blogger gets there eventually. We all look down into the blogging abyss wondering if we should stay or go. Are we wasting our time? Did we waste the prior 5 years? 10 years? Goodness it feels scary. But this is why driving organic blogging success – from traffic to income – is highly difficult for short stretches. No one relishes easing through these unpleasant-feeling emotions.

 

The few who ride out these uncomfortable blogging doldrums eventually go pro. Almost no one reaches the professional level because running away from discomfort seems routine in this world. Fewer bloggers clearly explain how mindset influences action. But this is why I created Blogging From Paradise Dot Com. I delve into the inner world.

 

The recipe is simple: value blogging more than you crave comfort. Value freedom more than comfort. Value the joy of helping people more than the fear of wasting your time. As always, migrating within reveals the cause and solution. Everything occurs within the mind. All happens internally before becoming your experience.

 

Watch as I discuss:

 

What Is a Painfully Difficult Aspect of Being a Pro Blogger?

 

 

Master Your Inner World

 

Blogging is between the ears.

 

Actions one takes or ducks occur within the mind. First you choose thoughts and feelings. Based on these thoughts and feelings you take certain actions or avoid taking certain actions. All occurs in the mind.

 

Being mindful is that important.

 

Yet most bloggers tell you to take specific actions without touching on the mind.

 

Why do bloggers fail?

 

Failure Occurs Within

 

Bloggers think and feel failing thoughts. Failing actions follow. Or perhaps you resist engaging in successful blogging activities.

 

Either way, all happens in the mind.

 

Remember that to change your blogging trajectory.

 

Do the inner work to make blogging work a little bit easier.

  1. Trevor Warman says:
    at 6:31 pm

    I think the one post a week strategy is working well. Not only does it drip feed the algorithm, but it gives me more time without the need to push out each post as fast as possible, thus more time to make the blog post as good as i can get it.

    I am learning to be patient.

    Its not easy blogging from a smartphone.

    The text flows much better these days. I love the logistic posts.

    I try to leave no stone left unturned. And it needs to be.

    This is the only way to gain credibility.

    The photos are all auto adjusted for brightness, then reduced in size, the photo file name added, uploaded in bulk to my WP image library, the alt text addded. And some posts have 40 images. Most have 15 to 20.

    The longer the text, the more detailed the text, it will naturally include more keywords without the need to do keyword research and make the post more unique, less generic. and thus avoid the temptation to keyword stuff.

    This is what it takes. A massive commitment. Welcome to the world of a travel blogger.

    • Ryan Biddulph says:
      at 10:48 pm

      Your posts are excellent. I can tell that you leave nothing out. This is the secret that few bloggers understand. Be incredibly thorough to answer all questions completely. Do the work even if it feels challenging to be patient, mindful and detail-oriented.

      Thanks for sharing your logistics with us. I’m always interested in how other bloggers set up their presentation by taking a look behind the back-office curtain.

      • Trevor Warman says:
        at 2:54 pm

        Another painful aspect of being a blogger is that you put in the hours and then some but the hits are dismal. The lack of traffic is disheartening for sure. I travel on the road less travelled and maybe you just have to suck it up. People just aint Googling the places I go to.

        And travel blogs written by travel writters who dont even leave their office get all the attention.

        FB killed the little social media reach I did have when they deleted my profile.

        • Ryan Biddulph says:
          at 4:29 pm

          Each is hellishly frustrating at times, Trevor. I know. I still go through these mental blocks and of course Facebook, Google and top travel bloggers seem to dominate the scene with at times questionable methods not truly helpful to human beings.

          You are on the right track with your content even if it is the road less traveled; figuratively and literally. The blog traffic will increase. Keep cornering this niche, update old posts and share practical tips via Facebook and X, along with dropping these blog comments. More people are reading my blog as I get clearer in my mind and put in smart work. Being social has its benefits. Keep up the good blogging work.

          • Trevor Warman says:
            at 8:33 pm

            Ryan yes. One needs to be patient. Bing showed me that i gained another high quality backlink a few days ago. Being social, reposting other peoples content helps, but showing a real genuine interest is the best thing ever.

            Am also doubling down on my niche. Sending some more posts to the gallows. I like posts about blogging but they deviate away from my brand. The prostate surgery post has been binned to.

            My niche is budget travel. Thats the base line.

            Have 11 posts from.this trip so far. And i have 12 more lined up. All very helpful and thorough content.

          • Ryan Biddulph says:
            at 9:33 pm

            Whittling down to one niche makes sense. Ditching anything not related to that topic increases your authority.

            Awesome to have 12 more lined up and ready to go. I went through a stretch of many months scheduling all posts. I just emailed each to my list, promoted via social media and replied to comments. Adds a passive element to your blogging strategy.

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